You have your ass/drawers out hanging with all guys…But you thuggin’??

The older I get the less tolerance I have for this nonsense…Before it was like like baggy pants…cool, then it morphed into this weirdly homoerotic practice of groups of dudes no shirt or shirts tucked in cheap boxers with their pants to their knees damn near…”Dis $hit Ain’t Gangsta” *Michael Blackson voice*. Maybe “Gayngsta”

Baggy pants is an immature look that you grow out of with understanding. Walking around with your pants at your knees…that’s some fruit booty suspect stuff…

Ladies make sure the word is spread that this is unacceptable. Women are the only one’s that can change this once and for all. If sagging pants equal “I’m not into women, because women don’t accept this look” more, then boys will grow into that higher standard faster than being arrested for it (total nonsense) or having older men that didn’t raise them chastise them…

Please Stop!

“We weren’t born to be miserable and to fail…We are a success story waiting to be realized as soon as the seed is fertilized…God gives favor to those who are faithful in their walk against fear. That is what living and pursuing your passion is. When you commit to that journey the Universe conspires to aid you in your success…”

I’ve been getting a lot of good messages and have been discovering a lot about what I control is really that big a deal. We each have the power to Love or Hate…Destroy or Create…Living in Love and Creating that which was once absent is truly Divine.

I read this book “The Alchemist” by Paulo Coelho some time ago and it spoke to the very heart of what my limitations tend to be. We have to get out of our own way. We are human and have human emotions such as fear. You only fear what you don’t understand or you can’t control, but you have to ask yourself is Your Success something to fear?? If not, why do we tend to wilt in those moments? We have to become familiar with our inert greatness.

I’m an infant when it comes to putting this into practice, but I’m walking in the journey trying not to look too far ahead. 

Just wanted to share where my head is in case any of you are in a discovery period as well.

Onajé Malik Lott (King In My Own Mind)